Listening to this true life story struck me and i couldn't help but upload it. The lady in question needs quick responses as she is about loosing it. Please read and post comments to help fix someone before havoc is wrecked.
She speaks....Am about getting married to my fiancé in a few months. I am so glad to have met someone as amazing and as loving as he is. We've dated for two years, and he recently proposed a couple of month ago, to be precise.
Everything has been wonderful as far as the wedding plans are concerned.
And right now, I'm just looking forward to my wedding day which has been set for December of 2012. So, here is the problem:
I used to date his father many years ago when I was a student in the University.
He was someone who came to the campus with some of his friends, and some male students, would arrange girls for them to hang out with either for the night, or for a week and so forth depending on what was happening.
I partied with him, traveled out of town with him, and his friends until I became pregnant and decided to have an abortion. And it was while I was laying down on that bed right after the procedure that I made up my mind to stop seeing him and I completely turned my life around. I won't lie, at first it was difficult to break away from that life. I missed having a lot of money to spend and to show off to all my friends and be the envy of the whole school. But leaving the old man was a decision that I had to make for my own good. Many years later, I now work in a respected law firm, and I make my own money, and a God-fearing lady now. I have a great relationship with my future husband whom I can't wait to be married to. I don't know how this will affect our wonderful relationship, should I disclose this to him. His father on the other hand is late now, but I’d seen the old man's pictures in my fiance's phtoto album, and family photos on the wall in their family home. And they seemed pretty close from what I saw in the photos. Do I really need to tell my future husband about the affair between myself and his late fathe? It was a long time ago, and I young, irresponsible and desperate. However, having to keep this secret from him weighs heavily on my mind, and I feel guilty all the time.
Please help!
She speaks....Am about getting married to my fiancé in a few months. I am so glad to have met someone as amazing and as loving as he is. We've dated for two years, and he recently proposed a couple of month ago, to be precise.
Everything has been wonderful as far as the wedding plans are concerned.
And right now, I'm just looking forward to my wedding day which has been set for December of 2012. So, here is the problem:
I used to date his father many years ago when I was a student in the University.
He was someone who came to the campus with some of his friends, and some male students, would arrange girls for them to hang out with either for the night, or for a week and so forth depending on what was happening.
I partied with him, traveled out of town with him, and his friends until I became pregnant and decided to have an abortion. And it was while I was laying down on that bed right after the procedure that I made up my mind to stop seeing him and I completely turned my life around. I won't lie, at first it was difficult to break away from that life. I missed having a lot of money to spend and to show off to all my friends and be the envy of the whole school. But leaving the old man was a decision that I had to make for my own good. Many years later, I now work in a respected law firm, and I make my own money, and a God-fearing lady now. I have a great relationship with my future husband whom I can't wait to be married to. I don't know how this will affect our wonderful relationship, should I disclose this to him. His father on the other hand is late now, but I’d seen the old man's pictures in my fiance's phtoto album, and family photos on the wall in their family home. And they seemed pretty close from what I saw in the photos. Do I really need to tell my future husband about the affair between myself and his late fathe? It was a long time ago, and I young, irresponsible and desperate. However, having to keep this secret from him weighs heavily on my mind, and I feel guilty all the time.
Please help!
Why did up an already closed wound? Why wake sleeping dogs? The old man is dead and gone and u av long repented, so zip ur mouth and don't destroy what u av cos no matter how long the years have been, the son will hate u 4 attempting it at all...my candid advise
ReplyDeleteLemme advise u,let sleeping dogs ''sleep'' not just lie... u beta shut ur mouth and dnt tell him anything becus what he doesnt know wont kill him, besides the man in qustion is dead,so what is ur own na? abegi jare
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehe, whoever knows this woman involved should tell her not to say anything to the husband to be,becus she end blaming herself when the jungle matures..
ReplyDeleteCan't you just be quiet? Na wa o! Ruth a ba oko ku!
ReplyDelete