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In the heart of Lagos, seven middle-aged women, jolly good friends from a certain Estate united for a fun night. Life had taken them down varied paths—corporate managers, homemakers and entrepreneurs—but they held their bond fiercely. This time, they were together to celebrate Adanna’s 50th birthday (fictional name and age, but true story). A club night had been the unanimous choice, something to bring back the zest of their younger days. Days of planning went into this night, with contributions pulled from spouses and mutual friends. When the funds were gathered, they decided they could afford one of the biggest clubs in Lagos but had to be thrifty on the actual spending. The choice was made: they’d secure a cabana, order bottles of wine, some plates of spicy chicken suya, and some bottled water. The grandeur was set, and for that night, they would be "big girls" in Lagos. What they didn’t know however was that their thoughts were mere dreams of what was to be and not th...

In communication, emotional intelligence (#EI) plays a pivotal role in shaping how messages are conveyed, received, and understood. It goes beyond verbal and non-verbal skills, tapping into the ability to recognize, understand, and manage emotions—both our own and those of others. High emotional intelligence allows communicators to navigate complex interactions, build stronger relationships, and mitigate conflicts. A key component of EI in communication is self-awareness. When we are attuned to our emotions, we can better control how we express ourselves, avoiding reactive or defensive behaviors that can distort the intended message. This, in turn, helps to foster an environment of open dialogue and mutual respect. Equally important is empathy—the capacity to understand and share the feelings of others. Empathetic communicators listen not just to words but to emotions, enabling them to respond in ways that acknowledge and validate the other party's perspective. This enhances...

The pursuit of excellence is a continuous journey. As I reflect on the professional I want to become, I envision a career rooted in purpose, driven by passion, and marked by impactful contributions to the organizations and individuals I serve. Using my own career journey as a reference point, this article highlights the key aspects of the professional I strive to be. Mastery through Experience  With several years of experience in Corporate Communications and Protocol, I’ve come to appreciate the breadth of skills required in this dynamic field. From media relations to crisis management, each challenge has refined my expertise. However, mastery is never fully achieved—it’s a continuous process. The professional I want to be is someone who never stops evolving, constantly seeking new knowledge and skills. Whether in the education sector where I currently lead a team, or in any other domain, I want to ensure that my foundation remains strong, while I adapt to the changing ...